Role Models
Lessons From The Animal Kingdom on Leading By Example
True story:
Several years ago, park rangers discovered a puzzling phenomenon in one of Africa's wildlife preserves—rhinos started showing up dead all over the park. The kicker is that the once healthy rhinos didn’t die of disease; they were killed, and not by poachers, but rather by another animal.
This was puzzling because only one animal could kill a rhino like that—an elephant. But it was rare to see Rhinos and elephants tangle unless it was over water or territory. So why were all the Rhinos being picked off one by one?
The answer came in yet another discovery. A group of adolescent elephants roamed the preserve, looking for a fight. They found their fight in the form of any hapless Rhino they encountered. So, this explained the deaths but not the behavior.
Why were they killing them?
The investigators had to dig a little deeper for the answer. When they did—they uncovered that each adolescent had one thing in common. The older males in their families were killed by poachers years ago, and the youngsters had grown up without them. In other words—they didn’t realize that killing Rhinos for sport wasn’t appropriate. In essence—that’s what they were doing.
Now what?
Talk about creative problem-solving. Guess what the park officials did next? They imported a couple of mature Elephant bulls into the area.
The adolescents were quickly “put in their place” by the bulls—but even more interesting was that the killing ceased, and the adolescents began to reflect the more appropriate behavior of the mature bulls. They were learning how to “behave”.
So?
I’ve always thought this was a compelling story for this sole reason. If animals need role models—how much more do we?
Powerful example. I think you're going to like Scott Galloway's next book, which is all about male role models (the lack of them and the need for them) in society today.
That story speaks, to me, of the vital role fathers play in family dynamics.